I.E In Besties

No Seas Chillona! Carilla Is Toxic & More! - Ep.69

Episode Summary

Hello Besties! Today we go over some sayings you may have heard growing up that can leave childhood trauma, we go into the toxic culture of "Carilla" y "no seas chillona!" and the long last effects they have on you. Hope you enjoy todays episode! This episode is sponsored by/brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/ieinbesties and get on your way to being your best self. Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/ieinbesties Stand Up To Cancer https://standuptocancer.org/?utm_source=IG&utm_medium=LinkTree&utm_campaign=homepage Buy Merch Here! https://www.inlandentertainmentnetwork.com Get 10% OFF on TasteSalud Products with code IEBESTIES at tastesalud.com Get 10% OFF Your first month of Therapy at Betterhelp.com/ieinbesties Follow us! https://linktr.ee/ieinbesties Stephanie Ramierez Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/stephsgotmilk/ twitter - https://twitter.com/stephsgotmilk Vanessa Cazarez Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/bloomingvc.vic/ Twitter - https://twitter.com/Bloomingvc Time Stamps! 00:00:00 - intro 00:01:30 - making it out of escape rooms 00:03:50 - putting each other down within the latino community 00:10:55 - needing a limpia 00:19:20 - feeling morally incorrect going to hawaii 00:20:50 - taste salud 00:23:25 - rushing to grow up as a child 00:28:57 - realizing life is always going to work out 00:30:20 - where did fatphobia originate from? 00:40:42 - dealing with internalized fatphobia 00:47:18 - is carilla bullying? 00:50:50 - latina moms only acknowledge the bad 00:54:36 - betterhelp 00:56:49 - not allowing people to project their negativity 01:04:30 - accepting some people are not good people 01:09:43 - having a difficult relationship with food 01:14:43 the human experience 01:25:06 - believing the good people see in you

Episode Notes

Hello Besties! Today we go over some sayings you may have heard growing up that can leave childhood trauma, we go into the toxic culture of "Carilla" y "no seas chillona!" and the long last effects they have on you. Hope you enjoy todays episode!


This episode is sponsored by/brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/ieinbesties and get on your way to being your best self.


Patreon:

https://www.patreon.com/ieinbesties


Stand Up To Cancer

https://standuptocancer.org/?utm_source=IG&utm_medium=LinkTree&utm_campaign=homepage


Buy Merch Here!

https://www.inlandentertainmentnetwork.com


Get 10% OFF on TasteSalud Products with code IEBESTIES at tastesalud.com


Get 10% OFF Your first month of Therapy at Betterhelp.com/ieinbesties


Follow us!

https://linktr.ee/ieinbesties


Stephanie Ramierez

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/stephsgotmilk/

twitter - https://twitter.com/stephsgotmilk


Vanessa Cazarez

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/bloomingvc.vic/

Twitter - https://twitter.com/Bloomingvc


Time Stamps!

00:00:00 - intro

00:01:30 - making it out of escape rooms

00:03:50 - putting each other down within the latino community

00:10:55 - needing a limpia

00:19:20 - feeling morally incorrect going to hawaii

00:20:50 - taste salud

00:23:25 - rushing to grow up as a child

00:28:57 - realizing life is always going to work out

00:30:20 - where did fatphobia originate from?

00:40:42 - dealing with internalized fatphobia

00:47:18 - is carilla bullying?

00:50:50 - latina moms only acknowledge the bad

00:54:36 - betterhelp

00:56:49 - not allowing people to project their negativity

01:04:30 - accepting some people are not good people

01:09:43 - having a difficult relationship with food

01:14:43 the human experience

01:25:06 - believing the good people see in you